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Online dating, or Internet dating, is a dating system that lets individuals, couples, and groups meet online, and possibly develop a social, romantic, or sexual relationship. Such services allow people to provide personal information and then search for matches, using criteria such as age range, gender, and location. Members can upload their photos and browse the photos of others. Some sites also offer additional online dating services , such as webcasts, online chats, and message boards. Sites generally let people register for free; however, they may offer services which require a monthly fee. Most of these sites are broad-based, with members from a wide variety of backgrounds looking for different types of relationships. Other sites are more specific, catering to a particular section, based on the type of members, interests, location, or relationship desired.

The added attraction of online dating seems to be the anonymity that these dating services provide. If finding a date in real time is a problem, online dating services will prove to be highly beneficial. Online dating saves time because it can act as a filter before even meeting someone. The advantage of online dating services is that participants get to choose the persons they are going to interact with. Although online dating offers the opportunity to meet new people from all parts of the world, the distance could also prove to be a problem. In dating online, the choice to search for possible dates that have the same interest, religion, location, personality, and situation rests with the subscriber. The possibility of finding the best match is larger in online dating. It is also very cost-effective.

There are several online dating services that cater to all strata of society. One of the more popular online dating services includes Yahoo Personals (for a monthly subscription payment of $7.50-$19.95), which is one of the leading contenders in the field. Other prominent players are Dream Date (offers communication through voice chat) at $9.00-$24.95 a month, Perfect Match, (offers the choice to include a video message in the profiles), and Match.com (this site tops almost all the online dating reviewers' lists). "SocialGrid" and "SearchYourLove" are two popular free online dating service providers. PC magazine grades http://www.universaldatingpackonline.com as the best online dating service provider today.

It has been estimated that approximately 1 out of 5 Americans takes part in an online dating service.

Helpful Tips To Remember to keep a man

The Negative Programming Goes Both Ways:

However, sometimes men do these same things too; the same way, it was discussed about the way we act, early on in a relationship. Although, sometimes men do these same things too; the same way it was discussed about the way we act, early on in a relationship. That sexual act doesn't naturally make him want to commit to you. It's just something that happened. And yes, he wanted you physically because you turn him on as he does you, but he's probably still not ready for any serious commitment between the two of you. His tempo to commit is actually much lower.

This is why in most of my blog posts on relationship concerns; I suggest that we slow our tempo on having sexual intercourse right away. When I say you are giving away your power, I don't mean; power over your man, I mean your emotional stability and how you will feel when you realize that that wasn't the way to get him. It's just something that happened. Win or loose, you have to be adult about the outcome if and when you make adult decision and it might not turn out as you expected. These are life choices we make.
Because he wants to be here for you, be with you; he still doesn't want a committed relationship right now.

Let's slow your roll, let things flow naturally and have fun getting there, if it's indeed with this particular person. Imagine that he wants to take you on a romantic or fun trip that still doesn't mean that he wants an exclusive commitment. He loves being with you because you're a fund girl to be with. So, if you; ladies or men, expect to have an amazing relationship, we are going to need to become much more mature in our ability to be hones with ourselves and them in learning how to admit the way we honestly feel. Again, this has nothing to do with our learning to think newly and or differently, but just fine tune the way we already act. Just perfect it a bit in-as-much as we don't push him/them into something that they don't want or that probably scares them away. Truthfully, a lot of us are afraid of being pushed into a relationship that's not right for us and having to deal with the effort of getting ourselves out of it, unscathed. There has got to be a mutual give and take in a relationship for men to want to commit, and even for us to want to commit, for that matter.

Helpful Tips To Remember:

Here are some things to consider:

• If he only wants to hang out with you for, let's say... once a week or only once every two weeks, this is a man who isn't into you for a long term relationship. Now, if you can pick up on this most subtle language early enough, you won't get upset so easily. You'll just move one and not try to get revenge or to make it into something other than it is.

• Be more fun and playful in your mannerism around men, and people in general. You guy, and other men are watching you and consider that type of playful and openness to be very, very attractive. Men love to be around that sort of woman. This type of woman will leave whatever is troubling her at home, and when invited out to tea or dinner or a party, she's light, funny, engaging with all others and especially him. She is just plain fun to be around and is not overbearing or trying to dominate the evening or a situation. She just is! And, that makes her just that much more adorable. When you are interesting to be around and he realizes that you enjoy being with him, he wants to make you happy all the time, so he will choose you to join him on outings. He will even want to bring his friends around to meet this fun loving lovable girl that he's found. The kind of women most men want to marry.

• Pressure, to a man, is if you try to inflict your wants and desires on him and make him fell that he has no part or say in the process of where the relationship goes. That will certainly not be what will get him or keep him with you. In fact, he's long gone; first emotionally and then physically. You will find that first he will become much more distant and closed off just before you don't see him again.

• The question to ask yourself is; "how, or what can I do to help fulfill his needs for the desire of his wanting to remain or commit to me?" You should really try your best to put yourself in his shoes and then more, on how to please yourself and him will be revealed. Seeing him relaxed and happy will make you feel no stress, and be happier in return.

• Sometimes, it only takes listening, and not even so much as maturity. This is a whole new magic or the art of growing up emotionally; enough to share of ourselves with them. These things are contagious once you start to practice them.

• Again, a man loves to be with a woman that is always happy to be around him, because he feels that he can make her happy and that pleases and sort of empowers him where doing the right thing for her and himself is concerned.

These are great basic skills of relationships:

1. Identify your own needs (tell yourself what makes you happy)

2. Be able to share your needs verbally with them (tell them how to make you happy)

3. Get your needs met (do not always count of them to met your needs for you...learn to make yourself happy too)

4. Don't complain if he forgets to continue doing the things that make you happy and or if the process just stops (remember that it's your responsibility to make you happy, first)

5. Be grateful with what you have and don't be angry if it's not what you wanted (you learn and find out how to give yourself more)

6. Being able to help your partner with steps 2-3-4-5

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The Art To Catching Him - And Keeping Him

Things Always Have A Distinct Beginning:

It is our beliefs that influence our lives. This statement came from an interview between two people that I admire for their honesty and professionalism. The interview started out like this; for instance, there are conversations that as youngsters, we've heard from the senior female members of our family. As the sat around the kitchen table discussing things that may have happened to them or to others, in their love lives such as:

• All men cheat
• Men are jerks
• Men don't listen

It is like they were carrying a chip on their shoulder; saying that these actions or the lack thereof is the best that they can expect from their men or a relationship with any man. They carried on and ranted and raved as if to say they felt that they themselves were unlovable. Now mind you, these were smart, intelligent women who were feeling this way. I didn't know that these women sitting around the kitchen table talking weren't the only ones thinking and believing this way about men and relationships. So, unknowingly, they passed this poison tongue belief on to the younger female ears listening on. Did we become to believe this way as well? So, just how do we learn to catch him and keep him?

This learned pattern is what is getting in our way from meeting, recognizing and getting him; let alone keeping him. The anger we hold onto from our former relationship hurts is deep seated and holds on tight to subconscious, whether we realize this or not. Let us say that our man is feeling some emotional stress when he comes home after a strenuous work day. We are not aware of the programming set in place, within us, from decades ago. We expect him to react one way towards us when he gets home, but in stead he just plops down on his chair and stairs blankly at the television; saying nothing. Now during the interview they were saying that men can feel this energy coming from us, be it positive or negative. This just happens to be anger or discontent that we might be feeling. Instantly he is thinking that; "I'm not going to deal with this right now", then feeling even more stressed. Actually, he probably was just tired!

It Is Time To Break The Pattern:

Instead, it is suggested that you: just gradually stroll up to him, without saying anything, and just lightly touch him; while you pass him by, in a particular way that would engage him in his body, and in his affection with you. Now with no words spoken and only a light well placed touch experienced between you; you spoke volumes. Now, he is automatically engaged in the moment and instantly connected to you as you were hoping for when he came through the door. Almost instantly, all of that negative stuff you were feeling went out the window once you decided to be an emotionally bigger woman and initiate change in your life and emotions. You see the interviewers said that we shouldn't change ourselves for any man, we merely change the way we handle our emotions.

Sometimes we actually have to become the initiator and help that negative emotion change to; powerfully positive emotional reactions. When we first meet a potential lover or life mate we mustn't start right in expecting him to act like he's our man already or our husband and further more expecting him to pop into that roll and show us automatically, the life, only we are dreaming about. After all, we just met the man or this is only the third date. Let's calm down ladies as we let things take their natural course. If you don't it is said that you will only be introducing what you don't want into your relationship; that's just starting to grow and turning into the relationship that you do want.

You may have been on the verge of making it an instant relationship instead of allowing the process to flow freely. To become demanding and expecting to much in the beginning, will turn him off completely. The process of catching him and keeping him means that you can't be the one calling all of the shots in the relationship, especially a new one; all of the time and wanting to know what he's thinking about, or where he is, etc. During the interview, it was said that, on date number four, you shouldn't want to know; nor should you ask where the relationship is headed. Again, this is an instant turn-off lady's.
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